<h1 style="text-align: center;">Understanding Modern Dating And The Impact Of Changing Values</h1>
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<p>I can understand men who go their own way these days. As the west deteriorates into it’s ever-growing dystopia simple interactions with women can be downright horrifying for the uninitiated, and even mind-boggling to well-trained masters. There’s a growing spectrum of women who are just entering the adult sexual marketplace, I say that because the teenage sexual marketplace is just as voracious as ever, if not more so – mainly due to the almost complete widespread acceptance of feminist values that girls take to heart, that being a slut has no negative connotations. It doesn’t inside their circles.</p>
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<p>Girls that enter the 18-year-old and up sexual marketplace have a different version of slut. The amount of sex they have had has made slut in the traditional sense almost meaningless – no it has turned to mean a girl who has sex with guys the other girls find unattractive or unworthy to have sex with. Giving it away for lesser than the top males, that’s what a slut is with the new generation. Anyone who is not immediately put into the yes category, are called everything nasty under the sun, no matter what an outside group of girls would think of same said man, it’s all about what their limited experience has given them in partners.</p>
<h2>The Changing Meanings Of Sexuality Among Younger Generations</h2>
<p>They are much more cavalier about their sexual escapades than ever before – game and any sort of courtship will be fruitless endeavors, outside of the basic tenets: Alpha behavior, being able to socialize, hip clothes, etc. The alphas of this young group get to have all the spoils, as that’s exactly how the girls think towards them, that the girls get to have all the spoils. It’s the first generation of fully feminist indoctrinated to believe that their sexual escapades should be applauded right up there with men.</p>
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<p>Now previous generations have had this to some degree, but this generation of 18-21-year-olds speaks of sex like they’re talking about an iPhone app or eating breakfast. It’s just something they do.</p>
<h2>When Casual Becomes The Norm And Relationship Expectations Shift</h2>
<p>I remember the 18-year-old a while ago I was at her apartment, her roommate was talked about having sex with a 16-year-old boy, and <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain-dating-service.html?gender=male&page=15">dating an older man online</a> who’d buy her flowers, their Facebook profile was full of an open air of parties and everything in plain sight – her enormous box of condoms that was pulled out in plain sight of me, who was in sizing her up mode, as she treated it like it was nothing more than a box of Kleenex or crayons. Just something that’s “normal”.</p>
<p>I, even as a moderate player never had a box full of condoms, probably because I don’t like to use them, and didn’t whenever I could – but I’ve had a lot of sex, but never needed to have a box that must have contained hundreds of condoms. These things expire, and it goes to show just how much cock this girl was planning to have in her.</p>
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<h2>How The Current Generation's Approach May Shape The Future</h2>
<p>You don’t have a trunk of condoms for just in case, you have maybe a pack of them, but hundreds of them? I honestly scratched my head at the way she’d talk about sex, like she was a guy, I’ve seen it and heard it in other girls of this age bracket. It’s not something that they keep hidden or out of sight. Sex is no longer kept secret in their world. They think single guys don’t judge them, they do, they are just tossed aside or kept for using sexually, but the interesting part is, the girls think and feel this way about guys.</p>
<p>Now if you think girls who are in their late 20’s or 30’s and single, who follow the sex in the city mantra are crazy, wait until this generation becomes this age. It’s hard enough for the girls now to come to grips with the dual nature of riding the cock carousel. Even though they don’t think it, even the boys of this age bracket, and older, will have little to no respect in terms of relationship material with girls who have trunks of condoms they bring out in parties like they’re party favors.</p>
<p>So yes, I can understand why some single guys are just giving up, game was a great way to even the score for some men in the current crop of females, however I don’t think game will be as necessary as it is now, or at least not in the same form. Talking to girls will be simply just being around them and <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Spain-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=2">holding a conversation with them</a>, and sticking around long enough to bang them.</p>
<p>The game essentially will be learning how to tolerate them long enough for you to get into the sack with them. My point is of course, that the west is only gonna get worse before it gets better. Let’s hope that this crop is the last of the morally vapid, biologically naïve, post-gender girls, and that balance begins to be restored. Otherwise I’m glad I’m gonna be too old to bother with them.</p>
<p>I guess you could call me a romantic.</p>
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